Dear Tired, Busy Mama

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Life isn’t easy for me.

I have three kids with differing special medical and dietary needs. This includes everything from intractable epilepsy to autism to 16 combined food allergies.

Until a few weeks ago, my oldest child, who is nearly nine, had never slept through the night. NEVER. No one in my family has slept well his entire life.

My husband lost his job last May, which resulted in a 12oo mile move to a new state where we knew no one.

Within a few days of closing on our house in our new state, my dog, my best friend of 10 years died.

A month later, my son had a terrible seizure that lasted 3.5 hours and landed him in the hospital. We were in Nashville – on a layover from visiting family in Seattle-when it happened. We had several months of awful medical struggles afterwards.

During all of this, I was homeschooling my kids and trying to finish my first book, “Nellie Nova Takes Flight.”

I am not telling you all of this so that you can feel bad for me. I am telling you this because I want to you to understand where I am coming from before I tell you this:

Dear Tired, Busy Mama,

You may think that your dreams have to be pushed aside. That there’s no time in your schedule for you.

You’ve convinced yourself that whatever it is your heart desires will have to wait for another season.

But, Tired, Busy Mama, it’s not true. You are still your own person, in spite of all of your responsibilities.

In spite of – and because of- these responsibilities- you need to have an outlet. You need to leave a portion of yourself for you.

Mama, you matter. Your dreams matter. Your soul matters. Your happiness. Your success. Your joy.

It all matters. 

Whatever it is that you’ve been pushing aside- go for it. Don’t make yourself a martyr to your circumstance.

You can do it. You can go back to school. You can write that book, paint that painting, get that job, volunteer for that amazing charity you support. Whatever it is, Tired, Busy Mama, that lingers in the back of your mind, whispering,“What if.”

Please leave room in your life for yourself.

If I can do it, so can you.

Sincerely,

Another Tired, Busy Mama

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